So I'm in a tough spot. Should I have another baby right now? Shawn and I really want another. My heart is saying yes, my head is telling me no. I am as always overly analytical. There are a lot of reasons to not have one right now. Money, school, jobs, the economy etc etc. But whatever is meant to be will be right? If I am meant to have another baby right now, as Shawn gets ready to deploy then it will happen. Should I stop preventing things? and just leave it in God's hands to decide if I should become pregers or not???? My biggest concern is to let my head overrule my heart and have something happen. If something, God forbid, happened to Shawn, and I gave up the chance to have his child, I don't know how I would forgive myself.
What would you do if you were in my situation????
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Well, first of all, negative nelly...stop worrying something is going to happen to him. Second of all, of your list of reasons not to, what is going to change in the next year or two? Not, what do you want to change, but what is for sure going to change that would make it a better situation to have another baby.
ReplyDeleteThere's the old saying that if you wait until the right time to have kids, you'll never do it.
I say start down the paths that will make you happiest. You can do school while pregnant, and continue online classes with a newborn. You can work while pregnant and go back to work at 6 weeks, the economy is not going to change enough for our Marines to make a difference. Do what is going to make you and Shawn happiest.